TONIGHT TOPIC IS THE QUALITIES A GOOD WIFE USE TO CONTROL HER HUSBANDS LOVE

Today I'm bringing this topic not only for today it's also for future purpose some that are not married...
A woman is a unique being created by God. She is a daughter, sister, wife and a mother. She desires to be loved all through her life. First from her father, who many women consider as their first love and then when she grows up, she desires the love of the man she marries.
Being a good wife requires more than just love. She needs to be caring, devoted, and trustworthy to keep her family
Marriage is a beautiful thing! Every woman wishes to have the best of marriage because a good home gives you peace of mind and allows you to pursue your goals and raise good children that will become great citizens in future.
But just as you would want a ‘good husband’, your husband also wants a good wife. So to become the good wife that will have the love of her husband always, here are qualities of a good wife you can cultivate to keep your home free from troubles.
There is no one-size-fits-all solution to being a good wife. But you can imbibe some of these qualities if you desire to always have control of your husband’s love.


 

 

1.    SHOW HIM LOVE

Always express how much you love him. If you love your husband, tell him and show him how much he means to you. Call him by a pet name; men love that. Put love notes in his lunch box or briefcase. This keeps him smiling all day even though he is not with you and he will always want to come home to you.


2.   SERVE HIM GOOD MEALS

t is through his stomach. A good wife ensures her man is well-fed. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home because you may lose him to her. Surprise him with his favourite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food.

 


3.    QUIT NAGGING


A good wife avoids nagging! Nagging and complaining constantly may create an unwanted rift in your relationship. It can also become a vicious cycle forcing him to avoid you and constantly stay away from home. A good wife picks her battles and doesn’t fight over everything.

 


4.    GIVE HIM QUALITY SEX(mainly for couple)


Sex is a very important tool a good _wife_ uses to keep control of her husband’s love. Even when you are tired, let him know in a nice manner and promise to make it up for him later. He will love you more for it. A good wife satisfies her man in bed and always tries to give him the best sex ever!


5.    BE CHARMING AND ATTRACTIVE


Husbands really love good looking wives. They will do anything to please them! So make sure you look good for him always to avoid him cheating on you with another woman. Ensure you look clean and attractive always.

 


6  KEEP YOUR HOME CLEAN


A good wife keeps her home organised. She keeps the house clean always and makes it welcoming for her husband on daily basis.


7  RESPECT HIM AS HEAD OF THE HOME


She respects him and allows him exercise his authority as the head of the family. Even if you are the one bringing in the money, still do your best to respect him and allow him to be the head of the home. Be open to your husband how much you earn and don't hide your money from him. It boosts men’s confidence to get their wife’s respect. This is one secret that can help you to control his love and he will in turn give you his maximum respect. For you to earn your husband’s respect, you need to show love and respect to him first.


8  BE HIS BEST FRIEND


The best marriage is the one where the couple is each other’s best friend. Do a little homework and learn about the things he is interested in so that you can have a conversation about that too. Learn about his business and help him to achieve his goals. 

 9. TRUST YOUR MAN


Trust is very important in keeping your man. Make sure you trust your man. Don't doubt him or make him a suspect on everything. Learn to trust your man. We men feel so happy and comfortable when we know our ladies trust us. We do things that won't break that trust. As a lady, If you want to keep your man and make him comfortable in that Relationship of yours, you need to trust him.

 

10. LEARN TO FORGIVE AND FORGET



This is also an important way to keep your man. We are human and offending each other is inevitable. If your man offends you and has apologised, learn to forgive him and forget it. Don't try to bring it back again or in the foreseeable future. We men feel irritated if you bring up our past issues.


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