MAKE YOUR MAN WORY ABOUT LOOSING YOU

 If your man never experiences any fear or worry of losing you, he will never fall deeply in love with you. If he never worries that you could leave him or that he could lose you, he will never value and appreciate and love you the way that he should!


Do you feel your man is taking you for granted or he's not really showing you the love and attention that he once did?



Or do you feel unappreciated and you want to remind him of your value and importance in his life?



Well worry no more because in this article, you will learn Tips That Will Make Your Man Worry About Losing You, Love You Even The More and Turn Things Around In Your Relationship.




1) Let Go Of Your Anger And Stop Talking About Feeling Unappreciated



This one is difficult to do but absolutely essential. When you feel like he's taken you for granted or that he doesn't appreciate you, it's natural to feel hurt and even angry about it. It makes sense to talk to him about it but sometimes that will only temporarily turn things around. But if things don't change, complaining continually actually make things worse. It's like he sees you as the one who's always complaining and nagging at him.



So you must not bring this topic up again, at least not yet. I know it's not easy to do, but if you continue to bring it up, you could ruin your chances of turning things around. So despite how you're feeling, you must not let him know that you're upset or sad or worried. Instead, after you do these steps, he's going to be the one missing and appreciating you and he will bring it up himself.



2) Prioritize Your fitness




It's common for couples in a relationship to put on some extra pounds. So if you've gained a few pounds and don't have the same hourglass figure that you had when you met your man, getting back into shape is something that he will certainly notice and appreciate. So join a gym or start following a particular workout program and make it a priority.



Make sure that he understands how important this is to you and that you have particular fitness or size goals to meet. Now, he should be happy that you are making these changes, but he's also going to know that you are going to be more attractive to everyone, other men included.



Don't be surprised if he asks why you're trying to look so good. If your physical fitness hasn't changed at all since you've been in a relationship, you can still share with him an increased level of enthusiasm about your fitness and then do the next tip.



3) Glamourize Your Looks



When in a relationship, it's common for people to get so comfortable that they let their appearance fade. If this resonates with you, it's time to start glamorizing the way that you look when you're with him and when you're not with him. So dress well and make sure that your hair and your skin is glowing and look your best.



Now, if you're a person who's always looking your best, consider making a change in the way you look. Perhaps you could change your hairstyle, your style of clothing or your makeup. Just make sure that it's enough of a change that he will notice, make you look sexier and more glamorous. This is going to provoke just a little bit of fear that someone else could take his place.



Do NOT purposefully try to make him feel jealous or engage in any type of manipulative games. No, these tips are all based on focusing looking and feeling amazing and reminding him that he's with an amazing woman and he must work to ensure he keeps you interested in him.



4) Resurrect Your Social Life Outside Of His



Make and keep plans with your girlfriends and keep your schedule busy. Take up a new hobby or do something that you enjoy. Be yourself and make yourself a priority. This forces him to recognize you're independent and that you're not just sitting by the phone waiting for his calls.



Remember, one of the most important things that men find attractive in women is independence. He's got to know how full and complete your life is. And if he becomes part of your life, it's because you WANT him to be part of it, NOT because you NEED him to be part of it. So make sure that you are keeping up with the life you had prior to meeting him.



So when he calls you last minute to make plans, 'Oops, sorry, I have plans'. This will make him prioritize and plan his time with you. When he feels a whim, he has to earn back that high priority status.



5) Connect With Him on an emotionally Intimate Level



What I'm saying is that you create a safe space for him to be emotionally intimate. Think back to a time when you felt really close and connected with your partner, or a time when you felt that you could tell your partner your deepest secrets and it would be totally accepted. We all need that deep connection with someone and those deep and wonderful feelings of intimacy flourish in an atmosphere of safety.



We open up when we feel safe. So create a safe zone for him to be freely expressive, to be himself. That means being a person who is very accepting and caring and compassionate. When he's connected with you on an emotionally intimate level, he will certainly miss you when he feels disconnected. After all, you want him to be lonely for you.



6) Talk When The Time Is Right



This one is super important. If you've done these first steps correctly, your man will definitely recognize the change and will probably become concerned and might even object to these changes. And that's a good thing. You want him to recognize and remember that he has an amazing woman.



If he doesn't notice the changes, that's when you should be concerned. You aren't the one who should bring up this topic. When he notices your changes, he's either going to step up his game and become more loving like he used to be, or he's going to bring up what he's noticed and want to have a conversation about it. And that's perfect. When he does, be clear and honest about what you want and your expectations for the relationship.



7) Be Willing To Walk Away



You must be willing to walk away from someone and something. If it isn't working, you can't lie to yourself that, although he isn't really what you're looking for, he will change or that things will get better. Believe me, they won't. It will only get worse. He needs to feel that you aren't willing to settle, tolerate behaviors or actions of his that you don't agree with.



In addition, in order for him to really appreciate you, he needs to experience the fear of losing you. This fear will be even greater if you're at your best self, because this type of fear is in fact rooted in love. But he will only experience this if he knows that you're willing and able to walk away from something that isn't right for you.


Remember, new relationships should be exciting, passionate and easy. When you really like someone, you want them to know how valuable you are and the relationship is. Be sure your feelings are being reciprocated so treat your lover with as much affection and consideration as you can, and that is exactly how you should be treated in return. Don't settle for anything less. 


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